Should I text them?
For the 1am "should I…?" you can’t stop turning over.
📱
Tap the button to flip.
How it works
- Tap "Decide for me". The picker returns Yes, No, or occasionally "Not right now".
- Whichever way it lands, pay attention to your immediate reaction.
- Relief means you wanted that answer; disappointment means you wanted the other.
Why use this tool
- Faster than 40 minutes of overthinking.
- Lower stakes than asking a friend to weigh in.
- No history, no log, no judgement.
When to use it
- 1am, mid-rumination, you’ve drafted the message three times.
- After a fight, deciding whether to break the silence.
- A first-message-to-a-match standoff that’s been going on for days.
FAQ
Does this know my situation?
No — it’s a yes/no generator with a tiny bias toward "maybe". The useful bit is which answer you secretly wanted before you tapped.
What if I get "yes" and still don’t want to send it?
Then your answer was no. The picker is a way to surface what you already feel, not to override it.